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For better or for worse

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By Korinne Phillips
Lifeatstart.com reporter

Recently, my school has been making many changes to our environment. After winter break we came back with a new set of rules that were being enforced. We are expected to follow these rules or suffer the consequences. Our new rules include not being able to wear book bags, lunch detentions for being late too many times, and having the basic dress code apply. This may not sound like a very serious issue, which to me it is not.

I have always been someone who follows the rules whether I want to stand by them or not. I would rather have to reroute how I do things over being suspended because I refuse to put my book bag in my locker. I have no problem with the rules they have set for us. My problem is with the excuses they are giving as to why we have these rules.

Last month, our assistant principal organized a meeting for the senior class, so that we could talk about these new rules being set. As we sit in this meeting, that is taking our class time away, they are sure to mention that we as seniors are now the “leaders” of our school. To them it is our job to help enforce these rules and make sure the underclassmen also abide by them. Our staff sat in our faces and told us that these rules will benefit our education. So what they’re saying is covering a hole on my knee is going to help me comprehend how to get the square root of a number? Is putting my book bag in my locker going to help my study habits? Is keeping me out of class for a whole day going to help me catch up on my school work? No.

Now, this has made me ask myself do they want to benefit the students or themselves? Our school was ranked at a D for academics and they’re more worried about making sure my shoulder is covered than giving us classes that can help us. Why are we required to take four math classes? Why are we required to take three social studies classes? I’m not saying we shouldn’t take any of these classes, but we shouldn’t have to take as many. The quadratic formula isn’t going to help me manage my money or learn how to buy a house. The classes that we have to take won’t take us far after high school, especially the kids that don’t go to college. We should have classes that teach us how to pay bills, buy groceries, or even fix a sink. We need classes that are going to help us get through life.

Not only do we need better classes, but a better staff. We do have a few select teachers that actually care about helping the students not only academically, but mentally. Other than them few, we have teachers who just sit behind their desks and watch us raise our hands and look back at their phones like we’re ghosts. We have counselors who go and visit other schools everyday, but can’t even send our transcripts out on time. We have principals who let the athletes with bad grades walk the same stage with the same recognition as the quiet boy with a 4.0 GPA. The district wants our school to change, but doesn’t even realize part of the problem are the people that are sitting right in front of them. They can blame the kids all the way for the way our school is viewed, but they have to open their eyes and see that maybe if they changed, we would too.

Oscars Trash

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By Dennis Amborski III
LifeAtStart.com reporter

Recently The Academy has released the nominations for most of their awards. I’m usually a fan of The Oscars because it shows all the great talent that’s mostly overlooked by the mainstream movie-goers. This year I have a problem with their nominations for Best Picture and Best Documentary.

The reason why I have a problem with the nominations for Best Documentary is because they left out one of the greatest documentaries that came out last year “Won’t You Be My Neighbor” directed by Morgan Neville. This movie has such a big emotional impact that not nominating it would be blasphemous. If you want to watch it on HBO. But now my real gripe this years Academy Award Show.

Best Picture should be about who is the best of the best, no matter how much the movie cost to make, how much money it made and, not how popular the movie was to the mainstream. This years nominations just slapped that model in the face. With nominations like Black Panther and Bohemian Rhapsody which are only there because of their popularity. With Bohemian Rhapsody’s poor editing and Black Panther’s horrendous CGI, The Academy should be disappointed on what they put the standards for the best to be.

Bad news?

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By Alicia Woods
LifeAtStart.com reporter

Nobody likes delivering bad news. That’s common knowledge. But eventually we all become the bearer of bad news. When you are the messenger, you will want to do it respectfully and with as little as confrontation as possible. With these tips, that goal of bringing peaceful bad news becomes a reality.

Tip #1: Prepare for conversation
You don’t want to be unprepared. It’s like a battlefield. Things will get emotional and heated very quickly and it’s your job to avoid adding fuel to the fire. Think of possible reactions and your reactions to the former. You are basically on a minefield. Be mindful of where those bombs are and avoid them.

Tip #2: Know why it’s necessary
Being the messenger is hard but feeling justified in why you are doing this eases the pain a little bit. Remind yourself why you are doing this and if you don’t know why, find out!

Tip #3: Be direct and compassionate
Don’t beat around the bush. Be direct and honest when telling them, but also be mindful of their feelings. Sure, you might be in a tight spot, but imagine how they must feel.

Tip #4: Mind your location
Choose a location which limits their humiliation. Don’t tell them out in public, in front of the world. Tell them in private, but be aware of both their safety and your own.

Tip #5: Don’t Bargain
You can’t allow this conversation to become a “but why” discussion. Things like “but why me?” and “but why do I have to do this?” are not part of the conversation and are not up for negotiation. The receiver of bad news must face the music, consider it tough love.

With these tips, you’ll become a “don’t shoot the messenger” type of bad news giver. But hopefully it won’t come to the shooting part.

 

Working experiences

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By Nyk Miller

LifeAtStart.com reporter

I work at a trampoline park called Get Air. I’ve been working there since July, before the park even opened. We helped put trampolines in and various other things that weren’t the best experiences, but were still fun. There were plenty of parts that weren’t fun at all: calloused hands from springing trampolines, cut skin from pulling silk covers over foam blocks, stuffing crash pads into tight covers, filling pits with hundreds of blocks, and plenty more. But there was plenty of great moments, pushing each other into foam pits and helping each other in a very stressful environment and in the end making some great friends and co-workers.

While I do enjoy my job and being there can lift my mood, it’s extremely stressful. As someone who can do every job necessary, I’m constantly running around, and work a lot of 9-12 hour shifts nearly every weekend. And unfortunately, I deal with a lot of angry customers, screaming at me for things that aren’t nearly my fault but rather the company. I know, I know, angry customers are just a part of any job. But take an angry customer and add their child, sometimes even nine or ten children. It’s hectic and a place where it’s hard to keep calm considering the arrogance and attitudes that are encountered.

Working front desk is probably the most fun part, being able to interact with all of the customers can be great, until they come back and scream in your face for a refund because they started jumping two minutes after their jump time had started, there’s also having money and credit cards being thrown at you and being cussed out, rude parents and kids, as well as people who talk way too low for the volume of the music and get upset when you keep asking their name.

Then there’s lifeguarding, which is mainly just boring and only gets annoying when people don’t listen and break rules on purpose. And maybe the worst of all, party host.

I love hosting parties, when the people are nice and I don’t have three others going on at the same time. Party families are usually all around rude and rarely tip, however the nice ones can make up for it. With an 11 hour shift and eight parties, the last thing you want is a parent yelling at you because they came late and they forgot to fill out their waiver. Speaking of that, the worst thing about the job, other than cleaning up blood and vomit, is waivers. People just don’t seem to understand that EVERYONE needs a waiver, no matter how much we tell them. Creating anger, holding up lines, and pretty much a whole headache, if it weren’t for the people I worked with, I’d probably quit, There’s a lot of experiences I could share about this place, but hey, come visit me, I work every weekend